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I spend half my life in coffee shops having honest conversations about how following Jesus works in real life. So, let’s learn together, grab a cup and join the conversation.
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Clare DeGraaf
Aug 25, 20133 min read
Dealing with People Who Continue to Make Sinful and Foolish Choices
It’s bad enough when you see a friend or family member make an unwise or sinful decision and then have to live with the consequences....
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Clare DeGraaf
Aug 21, 20132 min read
Spiritual Mentoring Tip #8
#8 Plan for the Future. Ending a Mentoring Relationship. Every spiritual mentoring relationship will end, so plan for it! Most of my...
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Clare DeGraaf
Aug 18, 20132 min read
Spiritual Mentoring Tip #7
#7 Evaluate Your Progress Regularly. At the beginning of every year, I go away for a half day and pray about all the men I mentor. I...
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Clare DeGraaf
Aug 14, 20134 min read
Spiritual Mentoring Tip #6
#6 You Don’t Have to Solve Every Problem your Protégé Has. When I talk to people about being a mentor, clearly one of their greatest...
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Clare DeGraaf
Aug 11, 20131 min read
Spiritual Mentoring Tip #5
#5 Be as transparent as you dare. Believe it or not, your protégé will learn as much from your failures as from your successes. By being...
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Clare DeGraaf
Aug 7, 20131 min read
Spiritual Mentoring Tip #4
#4 Show your protégé you care about them. Your protégé needs to know that you care about them personally. So, be creative. Do something...
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Clare DeGraaf
Aug 4, 20132 min read
Spiritual Mentoring Tip #3
#3 Ask your protégé questions that will help you, help them. A great way to get to know your protégé is to ask questions. People love to...
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Clare DeGraaf
Jul 31, 20131 min read
Spiritual Mentoring Tip #2
#2 Ask your mentor lots of questions. Your mentor is a wealth of knowledge and experience. But, sometimes you have to “unlock” the...
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Clare DeGraaf
Jul 28, 20132 min read
Spiritual Mentoring Tip #1
For the next month, instead of a blog, twice each week, I’ll be posting practical ideas for being a more effective and fruitful spiritual...
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